Sunday, July 5, 2026

Philippines Potpourri

We may not love the weather here, but we definitely love the people.  As we get to know more and more Filipinos, we are amazed at their faith and resilience.  There are so many young widows and so many orphans who were raised by their siblings or grandparents or others.  So many who were once alcoholics but who have embraced the Gospel of Jesus Christ and turned their lives completely around.  Their stories are amazing.

And I love the way the Bishop welcomes us to sacrament meeting here in our ward in Lahug, making it very clear that Jesus is the center of our worship.  "We welcome you on behalf of our Savior, Jesus Christ."  And before we take the sacrament, he says, "Please observe reverence as we remember the atoning sacrifice of our Savior."  And before we sing a hymn, he says, "To invite the Spirit of the Lord, please sing . . ."

We have recently been made aware of a promise that the church president at the time, Gordon B. Hinckley, gave in Cebu City on June 1, 1996.  He said, "I believe with all my heart that if they [Filipinos] will accept the gospel and live it, pay their tithes and offerings, even though those be meager, the Lord will keep His ancient promise in their behalf, and they will have rice in their bowls, and clothing on their backs, and shelter over their heads."

The ancient promise referred to by President Hinckley is from the Old Testament prophet, Malachi.  It says in Malachi 3:10: "Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse . . . and prove me now . . . if I will not open the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it."

Church members agree that this promise has come to pass.  The standard of living among church members is generally higher.  Many have jobs as "virtual assistants" in foreign companies, or in call centers, and as they get more education, there are more job opportunities.  The Church also offers internet education at low cost in its BYU Worldwide Pathways program and English Connect classes.  

And many Filipinos immigrate to Canada, coming for increased opportunities for their children.  There are large numbers of Filipinos in southern Alberta.  Our Taber LDS Stake includes a Tagalog-speaking Filipino branch.  Tagalog is the unifying language of the Philippines.  Everyone knows Tagalog, along with their regional language, their city language, their area language, their home dialect . . . you get the picture.  These are smart people!

Now on to pictures I've taken in the past few weeks. . . .  in no specific order, just a potpourri of beautiful sights, interesting foods and new (to us) ways of living . . .

Click on the pictures to enlarge and be sure to make it to the end where you will see how Filipinos eat duck eggs and how they determine if a pant will fit their waist without trying it on.

Couldn't resist taking this picture at the medical clinic I go to.  Just showing you an example of the warm clothes (girl on the right in the heavy sweater) that people wear here even when it's "feels like" 38 C (100 F)!  We see hoodies and sweaters and even toques.  I left all my warm clothes at home.


We've discovered delicious Belgian waffles at a stand in the Ayala mall.  You can choose the fillings, anything from sweet to savory.  They fold up and you eat them like a sandwich.  An egg and ham waffle followed by a cream cheese/strawberry waffle makes a meal for us.

Love these ladies.  We're all about the same age and it's fun to visit with them.  LeRon and I have started a "singing night" every Thursday evening.  Singing and then treats.  We did that on our Sweden mission with the young missionaries we served with and it was so fun, singing together for about a half hour at 9 p.m. on Sunday nights, followed by treats.  Made for a late night but so fun!

We started with these few people and as the weeks have gone by, more and more have dropped in to sing and eat.  Filipinos love to sing and they love to eat!

I haven't tried these mangosteens yet, but I need to.  They don't ripen after they are picked, so you apparently need to choose carefully.  They should be a deep purple with a bright green stem.  They should give slightly when you press them.  If they are hard, it means they are underripe or overripe.  The inside is white and tastes like a mixture of lychee, peach, and vanilla, so they say.  I will let you know after I try them.

Mangoes, mangosteens, and dragon fruit (red).  Dragon fruit is pretty but a little bland.  The mangoes here are delicious.  

I saw a young man shaking an avocado and holding it up to his ear.  I asked him what he was hearing.  He told me that if you can hear the seeds shaking around, the avocado is perfect for eating.  He shook it by my ear, and sure enough, I could hear the seeds.  Who knew?

Lots of Golden Trumpets are flowering here in the temple compound.  In the Philippines they are known as Yellow Bells or Kampanilla (pronounced kamp-a-nilya).

And Hibiscus here grow on trees; at home they are a small houseplant.

We keep finding new restaurants.  We're at a Chinese one here in Ayala mall.  After cooking for about 57 years, I am getting a little tired of thinking up what to cook next.  So we go to a restaurant once or twice a week now.

Ha ha.  Took this picture to show you how tiny the dining napkins are.  Some restaurants don't even give you one unless you ask for it.  For example, KFC, of all places, only gives if you ask -- how can it be finger licking good if you don't have a napkin to wipe your fingers after you lick them?  Here in Philippines, they call it a tisyu.  A napkin is a feminine product.

These whitey-yellow and pink flowery-looking things are actually new leaves on the balitbitan tree that will eventually turn green.  My dad would have found that fascinating.  He loved trees and so do I.

Cool fountain and sculpture that we just discovered at the Ayala Mall.  The mall is huge at 290,000 square meters with 680 shops and restaurants.  We thought the Mall of Scandinavia in Stockholm was huge.  It's the largest mall in Scandinavia but it is about half the size of Ayala and only has about 225 shops.  And there are even larger malls than Ayala here in Cebu.  The SM Seaside Mall is twice as big as Ayala.  I will talk more about SM Seaside in a later post.

Chicken feet at S&R, which is a Costco-type store.  The yearly membership is only about $20 compared to Costco Lethbridge at $120 or so.  S&R actually sells a lot of the Kirkland Costco brand items. 

But back to the chicken feet.  Is there even meat on the feet?  Lots of strange (to us) things for sale here.
Do ox feet really come from an ox?  Apparently you boil everything -- the bones, the cartilage, the skin, and the tendons -- and it makes a thick soupy-like, gelatinous broth.

Anyone for beef tendon?  Looks quite fatty to me, but Filipinos seem to like the fat.  In fact, a Filipino taxi driver said that eating fat makes him happy!

Ox tripe is the "edible lining of the stomach of cattle."  Hmn . . .  Again, it probably makes flavorful soups or stews.  I won't be buying it in the near future. 

Change of pace from the interesting things for sale at S&R. . . . LeRon teaches Rebecca piano lessons and I go along as chaperone while I read a good book on my Kindle.


For Father's Day, the Ayala Mall had a display of motorcycles and this gorgeous car.  Couldn't resist taking a picture of it for our son Craig, who is an expert on all makes of cars.  I wouldn't want to drive it in the traffic here in Cebu, though.  Too many motorcycles darting here and there.  Wouldn't take much to damage this beautiful car.  Glad we don't drive ourselves here.  I say a silent prayer every time I enter a taxi.

We enjoy taking taxis because we have such great conversations with many taxi drivers.  Recently, a taxi driver said he had been praying to know what direction his life should take.  Elder Torrie told him about the blessings of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and encouraged him to talk to our young missionaries who speak Cebuano, as well as English.

The McLaren is a beautiful car.  Glad there's lots of security in this mall.  Guards are everywhere in the mall and in the city.  Because of that, Cebu City is the safest city in the Philippines.  Some guards are unarmed or have batons.  Some have handguns or shot guns.  Even our temple compound is gated and guarded 24/7.  The guards work 12-hour shifts.  So nice to feel safe and secure.

We often travel through this 5-street intersection that has no stop signs, no traffic lights, and usually no traffic directors.  The amazing thing is that it works.  You just each take your turn as you can.

We often pass this tree.  The roots have worked their way over the cement wall of this street-side shop as they search for a bit of moisture.

Looks like Filipinos want whiter skin!  And many white people tan to darken their skin.  We all want to look like someone else!

I didn't know it at the time, but on June 17, 2026, there was a star and moon alignment.  If I would have looked at the right time, I would have seen Venus close to the waxing moon, with Jupiter and also Mercury, which would have been closer to the horizon.  But I did see this on June 17 as I looked northwest toward the temple.

From a different angle, I saw the moon with Jupiter or Venus, not sure which.  I have always loved the night sky.  Have been an astronomer at heart.

A friend at the temple gave me these cute and tiny quail eggs.  They were hard-boiled and ready to eat.  They taste just like chicken eggs.  A nice protein-filled snack.

Talking about eating eggs other than chicken eggs . . .  The above friend told me that they also eat "balut," which is boiled fertilized duck eggs with the embryo.  She says it's delicious but that foreigners should eat it with lights off so they can't see the feathers and the head!!  (And they do eat the feathers and the head too!). This picture is from the internet.  And no, I don't intend to try it. 

I have learned how Filipinos (girls or guys) determine if a pant will fit their waist without trying it on.  First you hold the pant like this. 

Then you hold the waistband around your neck.  If it fits comfortably around your neck, it is sure to fit your waist.  Yes, Elder Torrie, I'm glad to see that the pants you wear actually do fit!

Saturday, July 4, 2026

Happy Canada Day . . . and to you Americans, Happy 4th of July

Happy Canada Day on July 1st!  The Constitution Act of July 1, 1867 united the colonies of Canada, Nova Scotia, and New Brunswick into a single "Dominion of Canada."  So Canada is officially 159 years old this year -- just a baby compared to many countries in the world, including the US.

In my younger years, July 1st was called Dominion Day (as in the Dominion of Canada).  In 1982, the government changed the name to simply "Canada Day." 


The red and white maple leaf flag became the official flag in 1965.  I was a young teenager and it was hard for me to adjust to the change.  I loved the Union Jack, which had been our country's flag from my birth.

According to google, the Union Jack is still an official flag of Canada, but it is flown only on occasion to represent Canada's membership in the British Commonwealth. There are 56 countries in the Commonwealth (also called the Commonwealth of Nations), all with historical ties to Great Britain. 

I have always been happy to be tied to Britain, partly because of my British ancestry.

The Union Jack represents the united flags of England, Scotland, and Ireland, with Canada having been a British colony.  I never thought to wonder what "jack" meant.  But I have since learned that a "jack" is a small flag on a ship.    So the Union Jack is the Union Jack, not the Union Jack flag.  Now I know.  And now you know too.

Our son and daughter-in-law and our Torrie grandkids enjoy celebrating Canada Day.  Here they are on July 1, 2026, waiting for the Vauxhall parade to start.  Very cute Canada Day attire in Canada's colours of red and white.  And love that Canada flag candy bag to collect candy thrown from the parade floats.

Darling cute "Canada Flag" fruit platter.  Our daughter-in-law is totally creative and a good cook too.
I love our national anthem, "O Canada." We usually only sing the first verse and chorus but there are actually four verses, plus a French version.  I love all the verses, but especially the chorus and the fourth verse, which both talk about God and our need to rely on Him.

                                           O Canada! Our home and native land!
                                           True patriot love in all they sons command.
                                           With glowing hearts we see thee rise,
                                           The True North, strong and free!
                                           From far and wide, O Canada,
                                           We stand on guard for thee.

                                                 Chorus between each verse:
                                            God keep our land glorious and free!
                                            O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.
                                            O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.

                                            O Canada! Where pines and maples grow.
                                            Great prairies spread and lordly rivers flow.
                                            How dear to us thy vast domain,
                                            From East to Western Sea,
                                            Thou land of hope for all who toil!
                                            Thou True North, strong and free!

                                            O Canada! Beneath thy shining skies
                                            May stalwart sons and gentle maidens rise
                                            To keep thee steadfast through the years
                                            From East to Western sea,
                                            Our own beloved native land!
                                            Our True North, strong and free!

                                            Ruler Supreme, who hearest humble prayer,
                                            Hold our dominion in thy loving care;
                                            Help us to find, O God, in thee
                                            A lasting, rich reward,
                                            As waiting for the Better Day,
                                            We ever stand on guard.

                                            God keep our land glorious and free!
                                            O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.
                                            O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.

                                                Happy Canada Day to all!

And quickly following Canada Day on the 1st of July is the US 4th of July, this year celebrating 250 years since the signing of the Declaration of Independence.  

Interesting that the US declared independence from Great Britain, while Canada maintained its ties, but became a sovereign nation, both doing what they felt was best for their country.

Also interesting for me and my Hancock relatives, is that John Hancock was the first signer of the Declaration of Independence.  The Hancocks have often thought that they were directly descended from John Hancock, but actually he is our cousin (my 3rd cousin, 6 times removed).  He had children, but none lived to adulthood, so he had no descendants.  Still . . . we are happy and proud to count him as one of our ancestor/relatives.

John Hancock was the first to sign the Declaration of Independence and he signed it large and bold.  He wanted independence to happen!

Happy Independence Day to all our American relatives and friends!

Click on the video below.  
The Shaw Family (father and daughters) singing The Star Spangled Banner.
Beautiful harmony.

Sunday, June 14, 2026

A Michelin (Not Starred) Restaurant in Cebu

For a last hurrah for the Stirlands, who have finished their 18-month temple mission, we went to the well-known and very popular House of Lechon for our weekly Saturday evening outing.  Fun people and good food.

The House of Lechon in Cebu City is not a "starred" Michelin restaurant but is a "Michelin Selected Restaurant," meaning that Michelin designates it as a "high quality" restaurant.  


I at first thought that the Michelin sign was a joke, which is why I took this picture of the pig head with "Michelin 2026."  But google says that for sure it is a Michelin Selected Restaurant.


Lechon is a popular Filipino dish consisting of a whole roasted pig seasoned with herbs and spices and spit-roasted over charcoal until the skin is crispy and the meat is tender and juicy.  We were lucky to see the whole pig, which had just come out of the roaster.

House of Lechon is huge, with many kitchens.  Fresh air blows through the kitchens and the dining areas.

Our plates are banana leaves on wooden dish.  Fun!  Just throw away the banana leaves when you're done.  Here are the returning home missionaries, Elder Krey and Sister Wendy Stirland, and Sister Beth Andreasen, who has a month to go on her mission.

Elder Joe Andreasen is helping Elder Torrie figure out what to order.  We decided to order family style so we could enjoy all the dishes.

Not sure we want to try Lechon Batchoy with its "pork innards," (click to enlarge so you can read the ingredients) although we have eaten interesting innards in Israel with our friend Yael.

Here's our lechon.  And it was very tender and tasty.  Filipinos love the skin, but I tried it and my teeth couldn't even tear it.  Maybe my teeth are too old for that kind of thing.  Love the mango shake that you can also see in the picture.  It's our new favorite drink.

Another yummy dish.  Can't remember what it was, but it was tasty.  Notice that they only give you a fork and a large spoon.  That's the way it is in most restaurants here.  If you need to cut, you cut with your spoon.

This woman entertains customers while they're waiting for a table in the House of Lechon.  She makes pouches by weaving coconut tree leaves.  And she weaves fast!  See video below.  Pouches are filled with raw rice and then boiled in water.  These cooked rice pouches are often served with lechon.  In fact rice is served with most every meal in restaurants in the Philippines, even at Kentucky Fried Chicken.


Farewell to Wendy Stirland, who left the Philippines two days after this photo was taken.  She has happy memories of her year and a half in Philippines.

Filipinos Love to Party

Filipinos love to party . . . and what better opportunity than to host a farewell party for the two American couples who have finished their temple missions.  The 10 temple shift coordinators, along with the temple matron and her assistants, planned the party with lots of music, dancing, games, and food.  It was actually very fun even though the games lasted over an hour.

Click on the photos to enlarge and be sure to watch the short videos.  And don't miss the charcoal portraits of LeRon and me near the end.  Can't believe we really look that old already.

The Stirlands and the Andreasens have served for 18 months in the temple here in the Philippines Cebu Mission.  Elder Krey and Sister Wendy Stirland left for home on June 1st and Elder Joe and Sister Beth Andreasen will leave on July 1st.  "Well done, thou good and faithful servants!"
Filipinos like to do "walky" pictures.  It took me a long time to figure out what that meant.  "Wacky" is what they mean, but they say it "walky" and it means that you need to do something silly, or "wacky."  So here are the Stirlands and the Andreasens, with the temple presidency, doing a "walky" photo.  L-R front: President & Sister Preciosa (pronounced pree-show'-sa), 2nd counselor; Elder & Sister Stirland; Sister & Elder Andreasen; Sister & President Gison (pronounced hee-sohn'), 1st counselor.  In back: Sister & President Ong, temple president and matron.


Ready to start the games.  A volunteer or two from each shift.  LeRon is in the far back of the group on the left.  He's much better at games than I am.

Hit the colors or grab the egg as Sister Navarre (on left) calls out.  Elder Torrie did not grab the egg in time and our team did not win.  Lots of games that day.

Lots of music too.  Seems that almost every Filipino can sing and dance and speak.  Give them a microphone and it's their happy place.  Here's Brother Nunez.  A few seconds of his singing is below.


Brother Redulla (pronounced ri-dool'-ya) and his daughter are next up.

Elder Stirland and Elder Andreasen swore they would not be conned into dancing.  But here is the proof.  And see the short, fun video below.


Here's Sister Almagro serenading the couples.  Seems like every Filipino has musical talent.

More dancing.  LeRon and I weren't sure what they were doing so we did our own thing.  We haven't danced since LeRon had his hip replacement in 2018.  See video below (or not).


Dancing and enjoying the dancing and the music.

Next came the speeches.  Surprisingly short.  Each of the presidency and their wives gave tributes to the Stirlands and the Andreasens.  Here are temple president and matron, President & Sister Ong, expressing their love and best wishes.

LeRon gave a tribute also and then accompanied the singing of several hymns, including "God Be with You Till We Meet Again."

Ruby led the singing.  We love Ruby.  She's a classy dresser and a fun girl.  She lived in the US for several years and is now back in Philippines.  She tells me, with a laugh, how the bottom floor of her home always gets flooded when there's a typhoon.  That's life here in the Philippines.

Now speeches from the couples.  Here's Wendy Stirland.  The flood lights are now in a pink mode so everything looks purplish/pink.

Elder Krey Stirland bidding the temple workers goodbye.  Elder Stirland was a missionary in the Philippines in his youth.  On this mission, he has met with several people that he taught and baptized on his young mission.

Sister Beth Andreasen expressing her love for the temple and for the temple workers.

Brother Joe Andreasen always gives lovely, heart-felt speeches.  You can tell he was once a school teacher and a school administrator.

Here's the three "foreign couple missionaries."  I think we should have dressed up a bit.  It was advertised as a "summer party."  But I noticed that even the temple presidency didn't dress up, so I guess we were okay.  The party wasn't for us anyway.

After the speeches, the karaoke was turned on.  And very loud too.  We thought we were at a high school dance at W.R. Myers High School in Taber in the 1960's!  Every home seems to have a karaoke machine and each person has a cell phone.  Two essential things! 

Here's one of our shift coordinators, Sister Montemayor, singing to a cover of Canadian Ian Tyson's "Four Strong Winds."  We joined her for a while but whoever was singing the cover was taking too many liberties with the song for us.

Here's my sweet Amor (meaning love in Spanish) with her American boyfriend on the cell phone. I'm just checking him out to make sure he's not a 75-yr old white guy!

And here I am with Sister Cutie #1.  That's what I always call her.  She says that I am Sister Cutie #2.  We have fun together.

Here's Brother Ballon (pronounced bal-yown') who works in the temple office.  I call him Brother Balloon to help me remember his name.

I trained Sister Hearty to be a temple worker.  I get very close to these sisters.  Hearty is actually her first name.  She was born in February, as were her siblings, who are named Love, Valentina, and Valentino.  Nice valentine names.

We love these temple workers.

Doesn't Ruby look cool in those glasses?  She's all ready for a summer party.

And here's my Filipino daughter, Sister Gilamon.  She's the same age as my oldest so she always calls me Mom and I call her my Filipino Daughter.

Brother & Sister Sabala.  He is an amazing artist.  He took a picture of us at this celebration and in just a couple of hours, he had sketched charcoal sketches of us.  See picture below.  He's also going to paint a color picture of scenes in the Philippines for us.  Can't wait to see it.

LeRon & I were shocked to see all those wrinkles!  When we look in the mirror, we just see ourselves as 65-year olds, not 73 and 74-year olds.  Shocking.  And by the way, several people have told LeRon he looks like President Nelson (our church president who passed away last year).  He's also been told he looks like President Hinckley (another former president).  It must be the wrinkles, the jowls, and the lack of hair!!!

Can't leave out Sister Chicago.  I work regularly with her in the temple.  She served her mission in Chicago and so we have a connection: our daughter, Heather, lives in Chicago.  Sister Almira (her actual name) never served in Woodridge, where Heather lives, but she knows the area.  She likes it when I call her Sister Chicago.  I have nicknames for so many people.